Love Yourself especially when you hate your life!

Has there been moments in your life were you felt you are losing or you have lost a part of you?? Something somewhere doesn’t seem to be right.. Something seems amiss! You just don’t feel fine and in spite of thinking hard; the reason never pops up in your crazy little head. There are times when we feel lost, upset, irritated, tired, and angry and when asked “What happened?” all we can say is “Nothing. I don’t know what’s wrong!”  I have been on that side too! And each time I felt that, I religiously asked myself the same question of what’s wrong with me! And when I say what is wrong with me, it clearly means that I do believe a part of me isn’t right.. I am generous to myself here in saying that something about me doesn’t seem right rather than saying nothing about me is right.. So the question remains – Could it be possible that I am feeling uneasy because a part of me isn’t with me anymore? Like a feeling of being incomplete because something from my life is muddled??
So if I do feel that the part of me is missing, what am I supposed to do? I see lot of people dealing with this dilemma in many different ways. Some go on a shopping spree (yeah ok! I do agree its mostly girls), Some prefer to watch a good movie, go partying, get drunk, buy a new gadget or the newest trend could be to log on to a social networking site (especially Facebook) and bring yourself that happiness which you felt went missing.
This may work sometimes. You may feel elated, happy, good about yourself and for some, it may last few hours and it’s possible that they may get up hunted with the same feeling the next morning or the morning after that! At these times, take a moment and ask yourself “Is it possible that the missing part of you that you were searching outside could possibly be hiding inside where you never searched at all?” A part of you that you tried to fit it by a new phone, a new bag, new shoes, drinks or make-outs!! Could it be possible that at that moment all your SELF wanted you to do was just be there and say "I love you. I love you even in this confused, sad, terrible state. I love you even if you feel incomplete. And it is okay to feel incomplete at times. And each time that happens, I continue to love you.” Most of the times what we are looking for is within us. We never find it because we become too busy looking for it outside of us. Its like buying a crying/cranky kid a toy or a chocolate or a picture book to make him happy rather than holding that child, embracing him and saying – "I love you. I am here. It’s okay. You are fine. I love you!”
Sounds childish, foolish and senseless to some people! 

A part of you always needs ‘YOU’ to feel complete and whole, especially when things go wrong and your ‘SELF’ finds it hard to fight it out. Be your own guardian angel right then! Let you ‘SELF’ know that you love it as much as you love others. Make your ‘SELF’ complete. It’s never too late to remind yourself and tell yourself ‘I Love You for who you are and however you are’. Shout it out, scribble it out, mumble it out ‘I love you ___ (your name)’. So that, when something goes wrong, you at least know and feel that your love for yourself is going right :-) :-) :-)